I don’t like celebrating Christmas. Now that my kids are older, it’s the perfect time to take longer international vacations.

Christmas is too stressful, so I take trips instead. 

When my children were little, I felt the magic of the holidays deep in my bones.

Nearly every weekend, we dashed to see a light display or rode the Polar Express while drinking cups of rich hot chocolate.

Then, my kids got older.

As tweens and teens, they became hard to please. They seemed impervious to the joyful spirit of the holidays, grumbling when I booked holiday events and complaining about the gifts I chose for them.

I know this is developmentally appropriate, but it hurts. Last year, I decided to opt out of Christmas in favor of something I love: travel.

Instead of spending time and money on creating an extravagant day that would be stressful and (likely) unappreciated, I took my family on a trip to Morocco.

It was such a great experience that I’ve made international travel our new holiday tradition.

December happens to work for all our schedules

We went to Morocco last Christmas. 

There’s no substitute for seeing the world and getting an up-close look at different cultures and ways of life. I also think it’s the best way to raise empathetic, open-minded children, and I’m very fortunate to be able to provide them with these experiences.

However, my kids’ school schedules make it hard to go anywhere for more than a few days. I try to make the most of our summers, but that’s when it’s hot and crowded in many parts of the world.

Luckily, the kids reliably have an extended school break around Christmas each year, making the holidays an ideal time for our family to travel.

It’s refreshing to visit parts of the world where Christmas is just like any other day

Another big reason I travel during the holidays is to escape the stress of them, so I like to pick destinations where Christmas isn’t widely celebrated.

In many parts of the world, it’s just an ordinary day, so attractions aren’t closed — aka, we don’t sacrifice any vacation time.

Last year, in Morocco, I saw a smattering of holiday lights and small Christmas trees, mostly in hotels. That was perfect for me because I felt very little pressure to make Christmas Day magical.

I’ve figured out how to make holiday travel as easy as possible

Group tours have been a lifesaver. 

In order to make holiday travel easier, I book group tours.

Although I didn’t originally intend to travel this way, I planned last year’s trip in a rush, so it was the easiest and fastest way to make sure we could cover a lot of ground in the time we had.

It turns out that not having to worry about booking hotels or planning the logistics of getting from place to place was a welcome reprieve.

Even though I had more time this year, I decided to skip the stress and use the same tour company as a gift to myself.

I may not like Christmas, but I’m not a complete Scrooge

We still have a few family Christmas traditions. 

Skipping the holidays isn’t for everyone, but it works for me.

Even though I no longer have the will to create an elaborate Christmas at home, I don’t want my children to miss out completely.

Every year since my kids were little, I’ve taken them to the over-the-top Christmas displays at Gaylord National Resort in Maryland, and that has continued. We do all the Christmas things in a single day, from building gingerbread houses to seeing Santa.

It’s the perfect way to continue a holiday tradition without any pressure to be perfect — and minimal whining from my kids.

Additionally, I’ve always believed that experiences are better than physical gifts, and now that we travel, I keep presents to a minimum. However, on Christmas Day, I let my kids choose a special souvenir to commemorate the holiday.